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4 Reasons Men Fail at Online Dating

17. May 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Have you been a member of RussianLoveMatch for awhile but can't seem to get past the initial phase of a relationship? Have you met a promising woman only to have her lose interest or disappear? If you're having a tough time finding a potential match on, perhaps you're guilty of making one (or more) of these 4 classic dating mistakes.


You're Too Materialistic

If you spend a lot of time talking about the things you have, your house, your car, your job, your money, there may be a problem. These topics are okay in moderation, but a lady wants to know more about you than the size of your bank account and what cars you own. If you want to build a successful relationship with a woman you meet online, be sure to talk about things other than material possessions.


You're Too Choosy

While it’s okay to have a dream woman, you’ll have a difficult time finding love if you refuse to date women who don’t have every quality you desire. If your dream girl is a tall, thin, blonde who likes traveling and classical music are you going to turn away a charming brunette who prefers rock music instead? Expanding your search will only improve your chances of finding a woman with whom you connect.   


You Only Care About Looks

When you think of your dream girl do you focus on her appearance or do you also imagine her personality and interests? Nearly every single man dreams of finding a beautiful woman, but if good looks are all a lady has to offer you will have a hard time building a meaningful relationship. Plenty of women on our site have beauty AND brains. You just have to be willing to look.


You're Too Pushy

It’s flattering when someone of the opposite sex is aggressive in their pursuit, but there is a fine line between being aggressive and being creepy. If a lady doesn’t respond to your advances, take a step back and focus on other potential matches. If she’s not interested, she’s not interested, and trying to force the issue when only make you seem desperate, creepy, or both.


While it may be hard to admit, your tendency to be too picky, superficial, aggressive, or materialistic may be the reason you haven't yet been successful on If you're serious about finding love, make a sincere effort to keep these self-destructive qualities in check.