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Why a Negative Attitude is Toxic to Russian Dating

19. October 2012 by Christy 0 Comments

When it comes to international dating -where couples communicate almost exclusively online- a positive attitude is a must. Unfortunately, many singles grow bitter and negative after experiencing a string of heartbreaks and let this negativity seep into their interaction with a potential match. Here’s how a negative attitude can ruin your chances of finding love on Russian Love Match. 

Constant negativity is unpleasant, draining, and unattractive. What lady wants to be with a man who always complains when she could be with someone fun and upbeat? Plus, being overly negative can make women wonder if anything will make you happy or if you’re the sort of person who's perpetually miserable and depressed. While you don’t have to be over the top, a positive outlook can do wonders for your dating life.

While most men think being negative means complaining about Russian dating or the difficulties of finding a suitable mate (and it is), it also means spending an inordinate amount of time cataloging the woes of your life. Some men, for example, talk a lot about their bitter divorce or share depressing tales of financial ruin and personal tragedy. Others like to chat about war, unemployment, the troubled economy, and other disturbing topics. Though these issues are certain to come up eventually, try to avoid negative subjects at the beginning of a relationship and don’t dwell on them if you can help it.

Negativity kills promising relationships because negative people are unpleasant to be around and cause others to feel bad about life as well. If you’re looking for a Russian love match, work hard to keep a positive attitude and give the ladies of RLM something to smile about.