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Why Don't I Get a Reply to My Messages?

21. January 2010 by Administrator 0 Comments

Maybe there is a Russian lady who has stolen your heart. You send her a message, but you don't hear anything back. So you wait. Maybe you send her another message. But still, nothing.


This scenario is one our members encounter from time to time and it can be both puzzling and frustrating. While there is a number of reasons your lady might not reply, there are some things you can do to make it more likely that she will take notice and send you a note back.


Russian Women Are Busy

While the search for a foreign husband is important to many Russian women, their first priorities are often with jobs, family, and other obligations. In addition to this is the fact that many Russian women must travel long distances in order to visit the local agencies where they conduct their online search. Therefore, all of her life’s obligations must be addressed before she can set aside time to conduct her search. In this case, be patient and she may reply with time.


She Might Not Be Interested

For whatever reason, the lack of a response from a Russian lady could be a sign that she is simply not interested in you. Don’t take this to mean that there is something wrong with you. It may just be that she is taking a break from dating. Or maybe she has found something else to occupy her time. In any case, take it as a sign that she is not the lady for you and that your Russian bride awaits elsewhere.


Change Things Up

If you have not heard back from more than one Russian lady after sending messages, you may want to change the way you are presenting yourself online. Oftentimes, tweaking one or two things in your online profile can be the key that opens the door to better responses. Maybe you could change out your photos for some newer ones or ones that show you at your most handsome. Or maybe you can spend some time revising the written content of your profile. Look through our Russian Brides blog for tips on these and other related online dating subjects.


Don’t Get Hung Up on One Russian Woman

There are thousands of Russian women featured on With so many available women, it makes the most sense to get to know several, rather than just one at a time. The more messages you send out to them, the more replies you will receive and the more likely you are to connect with a Russian woman who interests you.


It may be difficult to determine why a particular lady is not writing back. So there is no real reason to dwell on it. Simply focus your energy on the ones who do reply and you Russian dating experience will be much more fulfilling.  


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