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28. April 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

It's obvious that the Russian dating industry is plagued by scam horror stories, and more than a few men refuse to try a service that others have labeled a ripoff. As a major player in the industry, has it's share of vocal critics and more than a few members have questioned the legitimacy of our site. Below are four common reasons men give when asked why they believe our service is a scam and why these concerns are unjustified.


A Guy on the Internet Says Your Site is a Scam

Blacklist sites and Russian dating forums are full of so-called true scam reports about international dating services like Some gentlemen completely buy into these tales and will cancel their membership with us or refuse to even give our service a try. While it’s important to be vigilant about potential scams, wise members will carefully consider the source of a scam report before jumping to any conclusions. 


The problem with blacklist sites and forums is that anyone can say anything without being held accountable. Often, scam reports are written by competitors. Nearly all of the accusers are completely anonymous and there is nothing a skeptic can do to check the facts. Unlike anonymous Internet sources, the staff at RussianLoVeMatch is easy to contact. We provide phone numbers, email addresses, and live website assistance so that members can reach us at any time. We work hard to run a legitimate business and have no need to be anonymous. If a gentleman prefers to take the word of an unreachable, anonymous source on the Internet over an established company with phone numbers, a physical address, and an easily accessible customer service team than perhaps our service is not right for him.


The Women Seem Like They Are Paid to Chat 

Perhaps the most pervasive rumor about Russian dating and is that Russian women are paid to chat. Gentlemen notice that many of the ladies log onto the site at the same time every day, making them question whether or not the women are working a shift.

The explanation for this pattern is simple: the ladies have work and school schedules, just like anyone in America or England, and can only access the website at certain times. Our gentlemen members also log onto the site around the same time each day, typically after work, and the ladies’ behavior is no different. The women on RussianLoveMatch are not paid to chat and never have been.


The Women on Your Site All Look Like Models


At times, the sheer amount of hot Russian women on make men question the legitimacy of our site. Are the ladies in the photos real? Are they the same women that members chat with? Despite what some may think, the answers to these questions is yes.

As we’ve mentioned before, appearance is extremely important to Russian women. Most of a lady’s salary goes toward makeup, clothing, and trips to the salon and it’s only natural that she want to look their very best on RussianLoveMatch. After all, she is competing with thousands of other women for your time and attention. If a gentleman wants indisputable proof that a woman in a photo is real he need only chat with her via our live video streaming service. 


I Have Gotten Way Too Much Email for This to Be Real

Members of, particularly those who are new, typically receive an overwhelming amount of email from our ladies. The large volume of messages make some men question whether our site is scam. While this concern is understandable, it is important for gentlemen to understand that a full inbox is not evidence of devious business practices.


For example, if there were 10,000 women on RussianLoveMatch and just 1% of those ladies attempted to contact a member, he would receive close to 100 emails in a single day! Not only that, but the ladies’ computer time is limited so they want to reach out to as many gentlemen as possible. This can result in a huge amount of email from our ladies


RussianLoveMatch will always have to battle accusations that our site is a scam, but gentlemen who take the time to educate themselves about our service and evaluate scam stories objectively have a much better chance of finding the Russian woman of their dreams.