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When Will I Find a Match?

12. October 2012 by Christy 0 Comments

If you're like many members of Russian Love Match you want to know how long it takes to find a long-term match. Unfortunately, we can't answer this question with any degree of accuracy because there is no standard time frame. Finding a match on RLM, as with any other dating site, depends on a variety of factors. Here are three of the most common.


The Amount of Time You Spend on the Site

If you log on to Russian Love Match once or twice a month, it will likely take much longer to find a match than logging in once a twice a week or everyday. Even if you do log on regularly, you’ll still need to spend time reading profiles, answering messages, and building relationships. After all, connections don’t happen overnight. Men (and women) have to work at it.



Even if a man spends several hours a day on RLM, he won’t find a match if he’s bitter and surly. The attitude you bring to Russian dating can play a big role in finding a match, so try to stay positive and not let past disappointments get you down. This can be challenging at times, especially when faced with rejection, but it’s ultimately worth the effort.


Pure Luck

As hard as it is to accept, luck often plays a big role in finding a partner. Thanks to luck or a lack thereof, some men might spend a year or more on Russian Love Match and never find a match, while others might find a bride within the first week. Some men might connect with a lady online only to discover there’s no spark in person, while another man might have the opposite experience. Understanding that you can’t control every aspect of the dating experience can help you keep a good attitude and preserve your sanity.


Yes, it would be great if we could tell you how long it takes to find a Russian match. However, we simply can't do that due to the many factors that go into developing a relationship online. What we can tell you is that men who are positive and persistent have a much better shot at finding love than those who are not.