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What She Gives Up When She Moves Abroad

29. October 2009 by Michelle 0 Comments

A common misperception about the Russian dating industry is that the ladies are only after a green card. Outsiders imagine Russian women as poverty-stricken damsels in distress who want nothing more than to escape Russia and move to a Western country. While this may be true for some ladies, it is simply not the case for most. Despite what many people think, several women lead happy, fulfilling lives in Russia, lives they are not willing to forsake for a green card alone. So just what are Russian brides giving up when they follow their hearts across the sea?

 

Family and Friends

A lady gives up a lot when she chooses to permanently move abroad, but the loss of her family and friends is perhaps the most significant sacrifice. Friends and relatives she has known for years will now be halfway across the planet.  Your lady will no longer be able to speak to them on a daily basis, and face-to-face visits will be rare. How would you feel if you had to leave everyone you loved behind?     


Understand that your bride is bound to be upset by the loss of her familiar support system, and that her melancholy is not a reflection on you. To help your bride adjust, try to support her through the tough times. Introduce her to your own family and friends and make an effort to include her in family functions and outings with friends.

 

Culture/Language

Imagine you have just moved to a foreign country where you don’t understand the language or the local culture. How would you feel? Scared? Alone? Bewildered? These emotions are what many Russian brides face when they move abroad to marry their sweethearts. While learning a new language may be the biggest obstacle an expatriate faces, it is certainly not the only one. Homesickness strikes nearly every expatriate from time to time, and the lack of familiar food, music, television shows, as well as feeling like an outsider, may make your lady temporarily long for home.


It takes time to assimilate into a new society, and your lady will need a lot of support as she learns the ins and outs of your home country. Teach her about your culture and encourage her to do the same. Moving to a new country should not mean she should have to forget her own culture.

 

Love, not a green card, is what motivates Russian brides to forgo their family, friends, and culture for a new life in a Western country. Visit RussianLoveMatch.com today to find a lovely lady who is searching for love.