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Top 10 Turn Offs for Russian Women

29. October 2009 by Christy 0 Comments

When courting a Russian woman, it’s helpful to know what things she’s looking for and what things she’s not. A recent survey of 580 Russian women revealed 22 common behaviors that turn Russian women off. For your convenience, we’ve listed the top ten biggest turnoffs below and some tips to help you avoid these off-putting traits. Keep this advice in mind while uploading photos, filling out profiles, or chatting with ladies and you’re sure to get better results on RussianLoveMatch.com.

 

10. Cheats

 

If you’re lucky enough to win a sexy Russian lady’s heart, the last thing you want to do is cheat on her.  Not only will you lose her trust, but she may just kick you the curb forever. Cheating, by definition, is the act of being sexually or emotionally unfaithful. While there may be a few gray areas as to what constitutes cheating, it’s best to abstain from any borderline behavior. Trust your gut when it comes to determining what’s appropriate and what’s not.

 

9. Men with Sex on the Brain

 

Almost anyone will agree that men think about sex more frequently than women. But while this may be true, most women don’t want a man who constantly expresses his sexual desires. This is particularly true in new relationships. When corresponding with a Russian lady, don’t even think about mentioning sex in the first few emails! Don’t send her nude photos or ask her to do the same. If you do, she might think you’re a creepy pervert.     

 

8. Disrespectful Behavior

 

There are many forms of disrespect, but one easy way to avoid this offense is to treat others how you would like to be treated. Some common disrespectful behavior includes lying, cheating, name calling, talking about a woman behind her back, sending crude or suggestive messages, and treating women like sexual objects.

 

7. Arrogance

 

Even if you are the richest, most handsome man in the world, bragging about it will only make you sound like an obnoxious jerk. While everyone tends to broadcast their best qualities, keep the boasting to a minimum if you want to score a hot Russian woman.

 

6. Laziness

 

Women like enthusiastic, ambitious men.  They don’t like men who are content to sit on the couch all day, watching reruns and eating pork rinds. Exercise, visit friends, throw yourself into a hobby, or work on bettering your career. Any passion is better than none.  

 

5. A Dirty Appearance

 

No woman likes a dirty, unkempt man. Take a little initiative and put your best face forward. Take a shower; shave; put on a clean, nicely pressed outfit. Posting a photo of you in your rumpled pajamas or showing up for a date in torn clothing isn’t going to impress any woman.

 

4. Rudeness

Disrespect and rudeness go hand in hand, so the old saying “treat others as you’d like to be treated” applies here as well. You can never go wrong by taking other people’s feelings into consideration.

 

3. Self-Centered Behavior

 

Believe it or not, the whole world shouldn’t cater to your wants and needs. There’s little that annoys a woman more than a man who behaves as if he is the center of the universe. Make an effort to consider a lady’s preferences as well your own and you’ll sure to do much better with the fairer sex.

 

2. Liars

 

This big turn off is easy to avoid. Don’t lie! While it’s tempting to exaggerate certain aspects of your life, try to resist the urge to tell your beautiful Russian women you’re a brain surgeon when you’re actually a hospital janitor. If you’re open and sincere she’s much more likely to respond well to your advances. 

 

And the #1 turn off for Russian women is……

 

1. Bad Manners

 

Saying please, thank you, and you’re welcome are common courtesies that too many people have neglected. Many Russian women view chivalrous behavior as indications of good manners, so be sure to open doors, carry her bags, pull out her chair, and generally treat her like a lady. Act like a gentleman and a lady is sure to look upon you favorably.

 

Avoid exhibiting these traits when corresponding with the hot Russian ladies on RussianLoveMatch and the chances of finding your perfect match will only improve.