There are many websites dedicated to giving men a place to rant about Russian women and Russian scammers. However, here are a few things to consider before sharing your Russian dating woes on a blacklist site or international dating forum.
First, there are two sides to every story and blacklist sites rarely allow women the opportunity to defend themselves. While you might care less about a site’s lack of impartiality, it’s important to keep in mind that Russian women have their own sites (yes, really) and you might one day find yourself blacklisted. If that happens, don’t you want the chance to defend yourself?
Second, hurt and angry exes rarely post factual accounts and this is likely true with your story as well. You may have heard the saying that there are three sides to every story: what he said, what she said, and what really happened. It’s second nature for people to present themselves in a favorable light, and this can cause someone to gloss over or omit facts, often without even realizing it. Could you be guilty of a selective memory?
Last, many of the accounts on Russian dating forums come from disgruntled suitors who want revenge for a broken heart. Other tales come from men who were flat out rejected and can’t understand that the women on Russian dating sites aren’t interested in every foreigner who looks their way. Do you really want to be a part of such Forever Alone negativity?
While it's natural to feel angry and hurt after a Russian dating breakup, trashing a woman online is never a good idea. It may feel good at the time, but it's better to keep your dignity and move on.