More than a few gentlemen are conflicted about whether or not Russian dating is for them. Other men don't know which matchmaking service is best or who they can trust. It's enough to make any suitor to feel discouraged and confused.
The general public has a poor understanding of Russian dating and many still view it as something shady and sinister. Some people may attempt to scare men away from Russian dating by claiming women from the former Soviet Union are dishonest or that all international dating sites are a scam. Russian dating forums and blacklist sites can also be negative and misleading. Many participants on these sites claim there is only way to successfully find a Russian bride or that men can only be successful if they use a certain service or services. Men who are new to Russian dating often don't know who to believe.
If a gentleman wants to determine what course of action is best for him, he must remain objective and attempt to reason things out for himself. Every man is different and what works for one will not necessarily work for another. Men who understand this basic fact are often more successful in the long run and are less likely to regret their Russian dating decisions.