Considering flying to Russia or the Ukraine for a surprise visit? Consider this - the women you're hoping to might be unavailable or unwilling to meet a stranger who shows up unannounced.
It’s important to note that women on international dating sites can't men on demand. Just like the Western men who court them, Russian ladies have school, family, and work obligations which can lead to packed schedules. That’s why it’s important that a gentleman communicate with a woman and plan a trip around both schedules, not just his own.
A gentleman should also ask himself how he would feel if a woman met online showed up in his city without any warning. Irritated? Shocked? Freaked out? The ladies feel the same way, and may feel uncomfortable meeting a man who arrives unexpectedly.
Most gentlemen plan surprise visits because they want to be impulsive and romantic, save time getting to know a lady, or all of the above. However, a surprise visit can backfire if it makes a woman feel uncomfortable or if a lady is unavailable to meet her Western suitor. When it comes to meeting a Russian woman, planned visits are the way to go.