Many men believe that international dating sites like RussianLoveMatch.com are full of scammers. For this reason, many gentlemen are hesitant to try our service and/or are extremely paranoid about being taken advantage of. More than a few members write long emails to the women on our site about the terrible things they've heard about Russian dating, how they seriously doubt any lady on the site is sincere, and how they’re not sure they can trust the woman they’re emailing. This is a bad idea!
While we understand a gentleman’s need to be cautious, implying (or outright stating) that you think a lady is a fraud and that RussianLoveMatch is a scam is a big mistake. Why? It insults women who are sincere and does nothing to discourage those who are not. After all, scammers don’t stop scamming just because someone calls them out and honest women resent having to “prove” they are sincere. There’s really no way to win when it comes to scammer accusations. Plus, how would you feel if the ladies constantly brought up the false and unflattering stereotypes about Western men? Hurt? Offended? Annoyed? Russian women feel the same way when men bring up scammers (which they do, a lot).
It’s okay to be skeptical and to have doubts about Russian dating, but the key is to not let these negative emotions creep into your emails and destroy your chances of success on RussianLoveMatch.com. Try to remain upbeat and positive. You'll see a huge difference in how the ladies respond to you.