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Resolving Misunderstandings with Your Russian Lady

16. October 2012 by Lorena 0 Comments

All couples have misunderstandings sometimes. In Russian dating, you have not only the challenges most couples face, but, additional stressors due to distance and a language barrier. While all couples argue sometimes, it’s how you resolve your differences that will determine whether your relationship is going to last.


Don’t Jump to Conclusions

Never assume that she has done something wrong without clarifying first. If something seems off, kindly and calmly ask her to clarify what is going on. No one likes to be accused of things by their boyfriend or girlfriend. Suspicion can kill a romance. Chances are, any issue between the two of you is a simple misunderstanding.


Exercise Patience

There are significant cultural differences between your country and hers. Even if she speaks English well, there can be misunderstandings due to differences in language. And, if she goes to the agency to read her email, it could sometimes be a couple of days before you get replies to your messages to her. Wait patiently for replies, and ask questions to clarify if something doesn’t seem right.


Adjust Your Arguing Style

The advice that applies to any disagreement in a relationship applies twice as much here. Never make accusations. Never call names. Always talk in terms of how you are feeling, rather than projecting motives or emotions onto her. By always taking a compassionate tone and attitude, you make your relationship stronger as you work out your differences.


Always Try to Work It Out Between Yourselves

Our customer service representatives are there to help if there is are serious issues or violations of the rules of our site. However, it’s best to attempt to work out any disagreements before involving us in a romantic dispute. Escalating a disagreement makes it that much harder for you and your bride to come to a resolution. 


Your relationship with your Russian or Ukrainian lady takes time, effort and understanding. But, when you are patient and kind, you increase your chances of finding a lady who is perfect for you and forming a strong and happy relationship.