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Planning a Surprise Christmas Visit?

20. December 2012 by Christy 0 Comments

Thinking about surprising your Ukrainian lady with a Christmas? Not so fast. Though a impulsive trip might seem grand and romantic, the reality is often quite different. Here's why we recommend that you plan your visit first.


First, men can’t meet women from Russian Love Match without first completing the Intimacy Request process. This process can take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks, so men who book a ticket and then submit a Request risk running out of time.

Even if a woman has already approved your Intimacy Request, it’s still important to plan a trip around both of your schedules, not just your own. The ladies have lives outside of RLM and are often very busy with work and school. Christmastime is even more hectic with many women planning parties, buying presents, and traveling to see family and friends. While a surprise visit might sound romantic, it can be a disaster if a woman is unavailable while you’re in town. Plus, it’s just good manners to consult a lady before showing up at her door.

Another reason we discourage men from planning surprise trips is that many women are uncomfortable with the idea. Most ladies want to time to prepare for your arrival so they can do things like get time off work, plan dates, and visit the salon. Showing up unannounced will unnerve many women and start the trip off on an awkward note, things you definitely want to avoid.


Though the decision is ultimately yours, we highly recommend members not plan surprise visits. It's generally best to take your time and plan your trip with a lady so the two of you can make the most of your time together.