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Overly Aggressive Behavior Turns Russian Women Off

17. May 2011 by Christy 0 Comments

No luck on RussianLoveMatch? Perhaps you’re being too aggressive. While they don’t realize it, many gentlemen scare off potential mates with aggressive behavior that many ladies find frightening or unappealing.

So, what sort of behavior is “too aggressive?” Prematurely pushing for a physical meeting and/or marriage is one good example. While a lady likely appreciates your enthusiasm, pressuring her to commit when she isn’t ready is sure to make her feel uneasy. Rather than pushing for a meeting or contact details right away, take your time. Get to know a lady. There’s no need into rush things. Men who expect face-to-face meetings and marriage too soon are often disappointed.

Peppering a lady with emails, demanding to know why she hasn’t written back is another example of overly aggressive behavior. Refusing to take no for answer is also ill advised. Some men are under the mistaken impression that the ladies of RussianLoveMatch are open to the advances of any foreign gentlemen, but this simply isn’t the case. The ladies are free to correspond with whoever they want and are under no obligation to respond to every expression of interest. If a lady doesn’t respond to your emails or indicates that you’re not her type then the best course of action is to just let it go. Making demands or issuing insults will get you nowhere.

While a highly aggressive, “won’t take no for an answer” approach may work well at the office. It isn’t likely to have the same effect on Pushy, overly aggressive men are a big turn off and men who wish to find a future wife on RLM may want to try a gentler technique.