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It Pays to be Positive

14. November 2012 by Christy 0 Comments

Are you a glass half empty or a glass half full type person? While your Russian dating experience may at times leave you feeling disheartened, it’s important to try and keep a positive attitude. Here are a few simple ways to do just that.

Refuse to Dwell on Disappointment

The difference between men who are successful in Russian dating and those who are not is the ability to let go of disappointment and focus on the future rather than the past. Obsessing over things you can’t change will do nothing but cause additional frustration and heartbreak, not to mention an unnecessary distraction. Though it may be difficult, it really pays to put the past behind you and look to the future with a positive attitude.

Look on the Bright Side

Some people have a tendency to focus on the negative of Russian dating rather than the positive. While thousands of men have found love via Russian dating sites, some men can’t stop thinking about scams, gold diggers, green card frauds, mail order bride scandals, and more. This is unfortunate as focusing on the negative can lead to a warped view of Russian women and Russian dating that makes it impossible to find a match. Russian dating isn’t all sunshine and roses, but isn’t gloom and garbage either. Try to strike a happy balance between seeing both the good and bad and you’ll be better off for it.  

In other words, be positive. Easier said than done, to be sure, but positive singles attract more potential matches than those who are perpetually down in the dumps. Head over to Russian Love Match to put a fresh face forward.