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Is Your Attitude Holding You Back?

18. June 2013 by Christy 0 Comments

Though it may seem insignificant, your attitude on Russian Love Match can greatly affect your chances of finding a match. Here are three of the more problematic ones. 


A Cynical Attitude

Some Russian daters approach RLM with a cynical attitude. They assume the majority of women are dishonest, that the site is a scam, and that their efforts are unlikely to succeed.  However, a glimmer of hope keeps such men on the site. This negative thinking naturally affects the way men act on Russian Love Match, even if they don’t think they’re letting on.


A Negative Attitude

Everyone struggles with unpleasant emotions, but some men take it to a new level by viewing everything with a negative slant. For example, if a woman doesn’t respond to a man’s email right away, he assumes it's because she's not interested, not because she's busy or gathering her thoughts. Some men might also take one woman’s lack of interest as a sign none will be interested. 


An Arrogant Attitude

On the opposite end of the spectrum, are men who are arrogant and cocky. Instead of struggling with feelings of negativity and insecurity, they assume that every woman on Russian Love Match is naturally going to be interested and behave as if women are lucky to have them. These kinds of men don't take rejection well and can get nasty if things don't go their way. 


These three problematic attitudes often intertwine, but can all be overcome with a little (or a lot of) effort. Are you guilty of having a bad attitude?


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