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Dating a Russian Woman Online? Avoid Talking About Membership Costs

22. February 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Every now and then, a member of RussianLoveMatch will tell a lady how much he pays to court Russian women online. A few men want to share their frustrations while others want to educate the ladies about the money gentlemen spend looking for love. Regardless of the reasons, discussing membership costs with the women of RussianLoveMatch is not a good idea. Here's why.

When a man is courting a woman, or vice versa, it’s impolite to discuss dating costs. This is true in the traditional dating world and it is true of Russian dating as well. When a man tells a woman how much it has cost him to date her, it often seems that he is bitter or regretful about the money he’s spent or that he doesn’t think the lady is worth the effort and expense. This may not be the gentleman’s intent, but it is often the way the message is perceived. This is especially true of Russian women who live in a country where chivalry still flourishes and where men are expected to graciously accept all dating costs.    

The ladies know that gentlemen pay to use the services of However, that doesn’t mean it’s okay for members to complain or whine about the costs. The women have no control over the fees and many feel embarrassed or insulted when would-be suitors vent their frustrations or attempt to educate them about the money they spend on the lady's behalf.


Though a gentleman may have good intentions, he should still refrain from discussing courtship costs to avoid making a lady feel uncomfortable at best, insulted or degraded at worst.