When faced with many options, some people freeze up and don't know what to do. Does this sound like a problem you have on RussianLoveMatch.com? If so, here are a few simple ways to narrow your options and break out of your decision paralysis.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the thousands of women on RLM try making a list - be it mentally or on paper - of the qualities you want, and don’t want, in a partner. The list can cover looks and personality types, though many singles also focus on education, lifestyle, age, future goals, etc. These “must haves” and “can’t stands” help singles figure out exactly what type of person they’re looking for. Beware of creating long and exacting lists, however. While it’s good to know what you kind of woman you’re seeking, being overly picky can sabotage your search for love.
Once you have a good idea about what kind of lady you’d like to meet, go search for her! You obviously can’t manually search for funny women or smart women or adventurous women so you’ll have to chat with a few ladies and get to know their personalities. This process can take time, and many men don’t have the patience to keep looking for that special someone. However, men who are persistent often find that patience and determination pays off.
In your search, it's also likely that you'll come across women who, though lovely and charming, clearly aren’t a good match. While you’re free to chat and flirt with whoever you want, you may want to politely send these ladies on their way. Many gentlemen try to respond to every email and chat request they receive, but quickly discover that it’s just not possible to keep up with each and every overture on Russian Love Match. Therefore, it’s best to focus on the ladies who are a possible match.
Don’t let the sheer number of ladies on Russian Love Match distract or overwhelm you. If you have a clear idea about the type of woman you hope to meet and faithfully focus on finding her, good things will happen for you. Good luck!